"A
professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The
professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar.
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas
between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was
full. They agreed it was.
The
professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of
course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the
jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
The
professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty
space between the sand. The students laughed.
The "Jar" Represents Your Life
"Now,"
said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize
that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important
things - God, your family, your children, your health, your friends and
your favorite passions - and if everything else was lost and only they
remained your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other
things that matter like your job, your house and your car. The sand is
everything else - the small stuff."
"If
you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room
for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend
all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room
for the things that are important to you."
"Pay
attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with
your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents.
Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play
another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the
disposal."
"Take care of the golf balls first - the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
One
of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad! you asked. It just goes
to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always
room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."